Self Help CDs
Posted by Rinda on 12/08/2009
Self Help CDs To Help You Realize That You Are More
By Mike Brescia, Director of Research at Think Right Now International, Inc.
Hello my friend:
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Through previous experiences, and particularly failures, it’s common for us to accept low valuations of ourselves and our abilities to do, be and have more than we currently do, are and have right now.
Why is this?
Well, you see, when we are kids we don’t have the ability to refute what other people say about us.
We usually accept it at face value…
When our parents, our teachers or others say negative, mean or harmful stuff about us, we feel bad. The worst thing is, when we’re young we don’t have the resources and the ability to think differently…
Because we don’t know who we are yet.
So we believe what other people say about us…
We ‘buy’ into it…
Because as children, we have little choice. We trust the opinions of others. We literally have nothing else to go by. So, as kids, when we are told again and again that we are stupid or ugly or not as good as someone else or that we will never amount to anything or that will never be able to do XYZ thing, we believe it because we are told these things again and again.
It must be true, right?
We believe it even if just ain’t so.
Here are some typical examples:
1. When you were young you were the most athletic or coordinated child, so you were teased unmercifully on the playground and in gym class. You were called a spazz. So that became your limiting self-image.
2. Your parents weren’t good in math when they were in school so they could never help you with your homework. So when your grades in math were poor, you were told that you weren’t going to be either. And that’s exactly what happened. You hate math. You are afraid of it.
3. You got beat up routinely in school by bullies. Your self image even years later? Weak… not able to take care of yourself, a victim, stupid.
4. You have led a pretty charmed life. You were allowed to get mediocre or even failing grades. You didn’t have a job as a teenager… you were given money without having to earn it. Your bedroom was always a wreck. You had few rules imposed on you. So as an adult, you even don’t know what it’s like to dig down deep into your mental and physical reserves. You don’t HAVE any reserves. You don’t know what it’s like to have to work hard to get what you really want. Result? You may learn to cheat, lie and otherwise get your way through dishonesty and/or supposed shortcuts. You lose a whole lot more often than you win… jealousy, anger and frustration at how ‘unfair’ life is.
5. Early on in life you were rejected and laughed at when trying to get a date with somebody. This happened a few more times. Result? You believe the things they said, that you aren’t good enough, that no one would want you. More anger, frustration, jealousy.
6. Everyone in your family is overweight. Since you were a kid, you were trained to eat junk food of all kinds. There was an abundance of it around at all times. Vegetables were nowhere to be found. So you, too, are of the large variety. Result?
With an abundance of information about how to be healthy and fit all around, you are incapable and unwilling to follow any of it. You have been trained since birth to believe and act in very limiting ways concerning food.
I hope these didn’t ring too many bells for you…
But if they did, you aren’t alone.
These are problems that billions of people have dealt with. These are the things that cause us not to feel responsible for the results we get in life. Yeah, we don’t just make this stuff up. We really, truly believe in our silly limitations that don’t really exist. They are the reasons why we humans like to point fingers at everyone else for the problems we have.
Trouble is, that doesn’t help us to get what we want or to be who we want to be.
Right?
It just stunts us. Caps our abilities.
When we create new Think Right Now behavior modification programs, we study the thoughts, beliefs, attitudes, emotions and actions of the people who are the best of the best in any area. We read all the published text. We interview people with problems. We study the greats.
As I have said hundreds of thousands of times, just knowing how to do a thing does not mean you will do it willingly, no matter what the benefits are.
I mean, everyone CAN bite, chew and swallow a carrot, for crying out loud. And a tomato, broccoli, beans, apples, bananas, lettuce, mushrooms.
And unless you are brain-dead, you know that these things are good for you in every way imaginable. We all know that they will help us look good, feel good and live longer.
But few people, at least in the US, CHOOSE to eat them.
Yeah, very few people will go out of their way to eat the stuff on a regular basis. In fact, most people claim they ‘don’t like’ those foods, opting instead for totally dead, inert, cancer-causing, processed crap.
Why? Because they TASTE GOOD… because of the artificial flavors added so that you will eat it at all! Without the chemical flavorants, you wouldn’t come within 10 yards of the stuff you just ‘can’t live without.’
But I digress…
Point is, every way you think, feel and act is nothing more than your programming, training and conditioning that you’ve received since you were a kid.
Habits control you, not common sense. Not facts. And certainly not because you believe the truth.
Is it true that you are not good enough?
Are you stupid?
No, of course not.
So why do most people never come close to their potential in any area of their lives?
Because they have accepted limits that others have beat them over the heads with for years.
That is what Think Right Now programs are designed to stop.
By putting in new beliefs about you, by getting you to consider an alternative truth about what you are capable of, by having the words to help convince you that you are worthy of a lot more, you will become more.
Because the beliefs you have about yourself are the most important beliefs you will ever have.
You literally can let go of nearly every ridiculous self-limiting belief you have.
Recency and frequency…
Recency means something happened recently… not long ago.
Frequency measured the number of times a thing happened… if something happened frequently, if happened a lot.
When you tell yourself empowering things about yourself constantly, you will always be RECENT.
When you tell yourself empowering things about yourself constantly, it will also be FREQUENT.
When you tell yourself powerful truths about yourself and your abilities and you do it CONSTANTLY, as all Think Right Now programs force you to do, you will be taking advantage of your most powerful tool…
Your mind.
It thrives on recency and frequency.
Why?
Because we all have short memories…
One day we think we’re nice, wonderful, great people and the next day we could believe that we are scum, stupid, ugly, dishonest, rotten and don’t deserve to live.
That is why our Think Right Now technology is so critical and why all of us here are working so hard. It works. It will help you literally change the way you think of yourself and the way you think of the world around you.
When you ‘buy in’ to the good stuff, the truth about your unlimited potential, you will win more often, you will persuade more often, you will be happier and you will have a more positive impact on your friends, family, community and on the world.
Yes, when you start believing in your true unlimited power, you will have mattered in the most important way measurable… the effect you had on history, through how you affected the people in your life and in generations to come.
Think Right Now programs can help.
Learn about them here.
I love you all!
Mike Brescia
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